Sharing care for my son is hard. But I'm learning

Key points

• Dimity, 67, says it has been hard to share the care of her autistic son Stu, who moved into his own purpose-built home almost two years ago. Stu needs substantial support and has round-the-clock care.
• Dimity still recruits and trains support workers, oversees his support program and acts as his advocate. She is now working with a circle of support, including siblings and extended family, to share responsibilities.
• She says their relationship has improved since his move.